Many of my readers rave about the power of crystals and stones. While I don’t doubt the impact they’ve had on their lives, I’ve always felt that it’s the energy of the person and their intentions, thoughts and beliefs that bring about the healing, not necessarily the crystals themselves. Until recently, I hadn’t yet fully embraced the woo-woo-ness of the energetic power of crystals. The idea that certain crystals carry certain healing or attracting energies – in and of themselves – seemed a bit “out there”.
Yea, I know… coming from someone who sees stick figures, I totally get the irony of that statement.
I don’t know why I was close-minded about it but recognizing that I’d slammed up against a limiting belief, I decided to get a crystal and see for myself how it works. Fascinated by an article I recently read about a woman who started a business of hiding crystals in your bra, I headed over to her website at HiddenHippie.com and bought a crystal.
Next week, I’ll write about the crazy thing that happened to me after I started shoving crystals down my bra, but today, I’m so happy to share an article that the founder of Hidden Hippie, Laura Ellis, wrote exclusively for us! I told her about my disbelief, my experiment and about you, lovely readers, and she wrote this post to explain the power of healing crystals, how they help her stop absorbing other people’s moods and how they can help you, too. Hope you enjoy it!
What do you do when you’re super sensitive and feel like you might burst with emotions, but your identity is so strongly tied to being rational and poised that you’re left bottling everything in?
Perhaps, like I was, you’re in an intense corporate environment where above all, you must. be. professional. AKA no emotions on sleeves! And besides, even if you could just let it all out and share your feelings to everyone, that doesn’t feel like you either.
It’s not that you want to share all your sensitive emotions, you just need help processing them.
Well, we’re in the same boat.
I’ve always prided myself on being a Type A, ambitious go-getter that doggedly goes after what she wants ~cough~ Capricorn ~cough~. But with that comes the tendency to overwork, heap too much pressure on myself and ultimately burn out. Throw in being super sensitive and soaking up the energy of others and, well, let’s just say I learnt early on that I needed to find some balance.
It turns out that the help I needed was from an unlikely source…
Energy healers. I’m talking things like reiki, kinesiology and BodyTalk.
I grew up with a far more science than spiritual experiences, so you could say I was a litttttle resistant – what if my brothers found out? I’d be teased for years. Or coworkers. I couldn’t bear the idea of being ridiculed, judged, and possibly lose the credibility I’d worked so hard for. I was still scarred with embarrassment from the one time a coworker found a list of “Things are great! I am enough!” affirmations on my desk… I wasn’t in a rush to let them know there was even more to it!
Regardless, I quietly stuck with it for years because rain, hail or shine, it worked for me.
Despite this, sometimes you’re thrown into environments where you need a trick or tool to help you in the right now. You don’t have time to wait until your next reiki session! Sometimes, you really need help shielding yourself from the small day to day stuff before it builds up. You know, like when you’re in a cramped, beige office with no windows. Day in, day out, it’s just you, walls and the delightful company of a snarky pessimist.
As luck would have it, it was during one of these times that I was introduced to healing crystals. They were perfect! A talisman, a little piece of energy clearing zen to carry with me!
Or could I?
No offense to new-age spiritual stores, but wire wrapped obelisks and orbs don’t go well with my corporate getup.
And pockets? They were few and far between so I could scrap that idea.
So, what’s a girl to do?
Well, this girl started hiding them in her bra.
And like every other alternative, hippie thing I’ve tried, it worked like a charm, no pun intended.
Keeping them discreet felt like I had a secret weapon under my dress! Magic. Plus, because they were hidden, there were no awkward office conversations about my private hippie ways.
I remember feeling like I had an energy force field protecting me when I went into the office. I’d arrive feeling happy and like myself (thank you joyful, abundant Citrine), and when my cheerful hellos were greeted with “uuugggh, it’s Wednesday. I hate Wednesday’s” the negativity just slipped off me. Not more absorbing of other peoples ‘meh’ moods, so I was able to stay in control and balanced throughout the day.
You may be wondering what the hell I’m going on about – healing crystals? How exactly do they help with your emotion and energy?
Here’s the lowdown: crystals are known to clear and protect energy, and even attract and amplify the energy they’re associated with. In a nutshell, they’re all about good joo-joo. There are crystals to attract and promote everything – love, joy, money, creativity.
But what if you’re not sold on the whole energy part? That’s cool too. I think it’s safe to say their good vibes don’t just turn off because you’re not quite sold on the ~woo-woo~ part. So really, whether you believe in that part or not, it’s a win-win.
The most important part in trying new things is the intention behind it.
In fact, here’s how they work for me…
Ever noticed how when you decide you’re in the market for a new skirt, suddenly all you see are skirts, skirts, skirts? It’s the same deal.
When you pick a crystal that’s associated with what you want to bring in to your life, and you see or touch it throughout the day, you’re training your mind to pay attention to the little openings and opportunities that roll your way to fulfill that goal.
Yep, a pretty reminder to keep your eyes peeled.
If I’m carrying some aquamarine for example — the calming, courageous crystal — I’m reminded throughout the day to take deep breaths and respond with poise when I feel a little worked up and would normally react with frustration.
One time I was wearing aquamarine when a guy stepped on the back of my shoe. My favorite shoes. My favorite white shoes. Greaaaaat. Now they had a big obvious tread mark that had to be professionally removed. Reminded of my intention for the day when I chose to carry aquamarine, I took a deep breath before gently thanking the dude for his apology, calling a shoe fixer upper and moving on with my day. No more tension and negativity swelling up in my chest. Calllllllmmmmm.
Like a lot of people, I get reallllllllllly nervous public speaking so I’ve also used it to keep me from losing my marbles before running workshops and talks. It pulls me into the present, reminding me of my intention to relax and have courage.
Simply put, they train you to look for what it is you want to attract. They increase awareness and open your eyes to opportunities out there that are what you want, but may be missing.
So if you’re like me – perhaps a little introverted and private – and the idea of sharing your emotions with the world is a bit of a stretch, try something a little different. Throw everything at it. For me, it was working with all sorts of energy healers and crystals. Maybe it’ll work for you too!
Laura is the founder and creator of Hidden Hippie where she’s all about finding what works for you (even if it’s a little quirky!) to live an abundant life. Head to HiddenHippie.com and sign up for their monthly crystal giveaway. You’ll also get updates and early access to her flagship course, FULL, so you can fill your life with love, joy and wealth.
Laura has generously gifted a ROSE QUARTZ healing crystal with bra clip – completely free, with shipping, handling and love all included – to one lucky reader! To enter for your chance to win, do any of the following:
- In the comments below, share your thoughts about this article, your experiences, beliefs or disbeliefs with crystals or anything you’d like.
- Share this article on Facebook or twitter using the hashtag #hiddenhippie.
- Do something kind for yourself today.
Winners will be selected at random and announced next week. We won’t know if you do #3, unless you tell us, but do it anyway. For yourself. 😛
Good luck!
UPDATE: GINNY W. won the free crystal. This free giveaway is over. Thanks to everyone who played!
Having a secret weapon is so powerful, energy or no. I do the same thing with BlueQ socks. They’re always hilarious and usually speak to the quirkiness of human nature. For instance, I have a pair that are covered in rainbows that say “It’s a s****ing rainbows kind of day”. I think this article has convinced me that maybe I should try the crystal route as well for those moments when another person’s energy is twisting my soul in knots.
I’m not sure if I believe the idea of crystals reflecting energy, or maybe I just don’t really understand it. However, I like the thought behind it and would WANT to believe in it and the solace it brings. Like believing in angels or spirits, I have no proof, just a deep gut feeling that they’re there protecting me. At least a crystal would be something tangible.
I think that is article is wonderful and eye opening! I have some healing crystals at home that I really like to have with for mediating and I feel great having them around, but I don’t take them with me -like you said, it would feel really awkward to have them in my pocket. I think it’s great hearing from you how well the crystals have worked for you as a clip. I have been meaning to get a clip on crystal from Hidden Hippie, but haven’t found the time or the money to do so given that I am in college. But anyway, I think it’s great that the use of healing crystals is growing because I can see them being even more popular and useful in the future. Thank you for this wonderful article!
I was in Erie, PA for vacation and came across the coolest rock/crystal shop. An intuitive named Marg read me and gave me a sodalite stone. I had a headache from a candle nearby, but minutes after holding this stone my headache disappeared. I’ve suffered migraines for over a decade. Other than avoiding triggers nothing really gets rid of them once they start. I’m pleasantly surprised that this stone helped, and helped so well. I’m NEVER letting go of this wonderful stone.
As a cancer patient, I was determined to use whatever was available to help me recover from the effects of chemo and radiation. I took my first reiki class, learned about essential oils and began reading of the healing energy of crystals. I believe that when you are open to new ideas, information comes your way. If nothing else came from trying things other people may find odd, it helped me become more accepting and appreciative of what I’ve learned. I truly feel these new ideas helped me recover my strength and regain good health
I was in Sedona last January and bought a few crystals-for money, for finding my voice and for peace. I put the money crystal in my wallet and although I’m not suddenly wealthy, there have been bills in that wallet ever since. That just wasn’t the case before, My wallet was often empty. It has given me a bit of security and has me thinking more on the abundance mindset rather than the lack. I’m a believer!! PS-I too am a hippie, but I have the good fortune to not have to hide it! Much love!! xoxo
I just love your article. I too have been working with crystals ever since I woke up in 2004. They are my healers for sure. thanks for the information you are putting out to others this world needs it. much love..you can visit my website at loveisall.me
Hi Laura. I love crystals. Just started using them a couple of years ago in healing sessions. So powerful. I love this idea. Like having a secret weapon (for good)
Great article. Someone once told me that you amplify the power by sitting the crystals on a mirror – so I do 🙂
Interestingly, someone gave me a small guardian angel crystal when I had to undergo major surgery. My daughters had to pack up my bag while I was being operated on, as I would be in a different room. When I came to unpacking my bag, the angel had lost her R wing just like my R arm was paralyzed after the op. When I eventually got home, the first thing I did was glue the wing back so my arm could regain movement 🙂
What a great idea ! I’m retired now but many was the time while I worked as a nurse that I could have used some energy- for me or my patients ! I love rocks and stones, too so I’m going to follow this idea down the rabbit hole ! YEA !
I have a a love of the healing power of the different beautiful stones. Thank you for a lovely article 🙂
Thanks Heather, I’m so happy you enjoyed it 🙂
Thanks Ginny!! I love hearing that. Haha it’s a fun ride down the rabbit hole, I’ll say that!
I’ve been working with crystals for a couple years now and I swear by them. Not only have I carried them in my pockets, but I’ve started making necklaces with several crystal chips, when I need the teamwork and powers of several at one time (family reunions, Walmart trips, shadow work, etc). Sometimes I notice their calming or intended influence in the moment, other times (like when I wear my “breaking through limiting beliefs” or “pathfinder” necklace as I call it) I don’t see how they’ve helped until I look back on the “bad” things that happened that day and realized I needed to get them out and deal with them before I could move forward. I couldn’t have changed for the better as fast as I have without the help of my crystal friends.
I appreciated Laura’s guest column. Her explanation makes sense to me, plus the bra crystal is just fun. 🙂
Thanks Libby! Making things fun is one of the best healing methods around I think 🙂
I always been drawn to collecting rocks especially the ones that sparkle with crystals. I collect rocks and pick up trash in exchange and find it clears my mind and calms my tensions. Maybe it’s the crystals within that help reduce my aniexties or that I’m doing something good for the environment. When someone noticed that I’m picking up trash it’s the biggest reward and am usually thanked for my neighborly service.
Susan, I’m touched to hear how calming and clearing it is for you to do this lovely exchange 🙂 We plant a tree for every purchase, so I’m very grateful for your service to keep the environment clean